When Your Inner Child Blocks Your Guides

Note: This message was supposed to go out last week but for some reason was not.  Guess the guides had another plan.  LOL.  Enjoy!

Talking with our guides and angels is a wonderful thing; we don’t feel as though we are walking blindly through life when we have that connection.  But what about those times when it appears that our guides have left us?  Personally, I don’t know of anything that could create a greater sense of isolation and abandonment.

In the years I’ve been facilitating Guide communication training, I’ve learned that there are three reasons that guides may appear to have disconnected from us.
1. There is a guide change going on.
2. We have entered a lesson for which our guides have prepared up (by soul contract). Now that the lesson is ready, they have stepped back in order to allow us space to move through it on our own, (again, by soul contract).
3. Our inner child is blocking communication.

The third reason is the focus of this week’s message. To make it easier to understand, I’ll share the story of a lovely lady and dedicated healer named Janet (not her real name, of course).

Though she routinely worked with clients’ guides, and was still able to hear their guides, Janet had stopped hearing from her own. Thinking that it might be due so some aspect of guide communication that she may not be aware of, Janet chose to do the Guide Communication Workshop rather than an Emotional Clearing session since a block was the focus.

When beginning the workshop I normally ask clients if they have any issues or concerns around talking with their guides. Janet’s case as a bit unusual because, as already mentioned, she was not able to hear her own.

As Janet responded to a few questions regarding the apparent block, I was keenly aware of the a frightened little girl sitting alone in the dark that I was seeing in my mind’s eye. Yet, the answers she gave to my first few questions didn’t make sense of the vision. After probing a little deeper the connection became clear.

I decided not to reveal it at that moment because I felt that Janet needed to know that her psychic abilities still worked. I took Janet through the Movie Theatre Technique, a fun little guided visualization that is designed to determine a client’s psychic strengths. Sure enough the exercise revealed that Janet was very strong in clairvoyance and clairaudience, yet her clairkinessence was flagging far behind. In other words, Janet could see what was on the movie screen, and could hear the letters as they were given to her by her guide, but she could not feel them.

Now that Janet knew where her psychic abilities stood, I felt comfortable that she would understand why she wasn’t getting the connection she used to have: her inner child was blocking her ability to feel.

The ability to feel, clairkinessence, is probably the most important psychic ability and here’s an example as to why.

There is a woman standing on a cliff. The clairvoyant can see her and describe her down to the size, cut and number of the stones in her wedding ring. The clairaudient can hear the words she is saying, but it is the clairkinescent that can tell me why she is there, and what she is feeling. In other words, the feeling is the key to interpreting what we see and hear. It puts the tone into the words. I hope that makes sense.

Back to Janet

Some of the questions I asked Janet were about her childhood and marriage. Janet revealed a propensity towards the intellect as she had grown up that way.  And true to form, Janet drew partners who aligned with that value.  This translated into relationships that eschewed excessive emotion and in many cases, keeping one’s silence in order to maintain peace.  Needless to say Janet had unknowingly taught her inner child to censor her words and feelings because expressing those that could cause conflict was unsafe.

When asked when she first noticed the communication block, Janet said it was around the around the time that she moved into a home that felt unsafe.  If I’m not mistaken this was during the time she lived with her first husband…who was abusive.  Combine the fear she felt during an abusive marriage while living in place that felt unsafe, with her childhood programming to suppress emotion in order feel safe…does it not seem reasonable that her inner child had reached her limit and therefore simply shut down?  Now the vision of the frightened little girl in the corner makes sense, doesn’t it?

The Inner Child/Guide Communication Connection

So how does a frightened inner child that hides and won’t feel, or emote affect guide communication? Very simply, by blocking feeling and emotion (feelings in motion). t takes emotion to interpret guide communication because guides speak through that language. Janet and unknowingly taught her inner child not to express anything. This situation had gone on for so long and to such a degree that all feeling, thus all communication, had become blocked.

But what about being able to hear other people’s guides? As long as the information was for someone else it didn’t threaten Janet’s inner child’s survival, so she allowed it.

The solution to Janet’s dilemma was to reconnect with her inner child and let her know that things would change. Janet would make agreements with her new husband, friends and family that would make it safe to express. Specific inner child agreements (see The Divine Partnership, the 3rd Key of Compassion), and more interaction would enable Janet and her inner child to rebuild a strong and loving bond.

In closing, guides can become distance for a number of reasons.  If you feel that your guides have deserted you, and you’ve ruled out the first two reasons, then perhaps it is time to go within and talk with your inner child.  After all, the inner child relationship is the most important in our lives. Why?  It is the relationship which becomes the blueprint for all of our relationships. With a bond of trust and love, they will not only help us navigate this 3D reality, but also achieve the kind of self-love that enables us to move beyond surviving to thriving.


About Jelaila:
Jelaila Starr is an internationally known speaker, and author of We are the Nibiruans, Book One and Mission Remembered, Book Two. Through her lectures, workshops, Jelaila’s message has touched the hearts of people around the globe providing hope, inspiration, and understanding.

As a gifted psychic/intuitive counselor, Jelaila works with individuals to assist them with emotional clearing, healing relationships, and DNA Recoding. Jelaila’s unique approach enables her clients to discover who they are, what they came to do and how to achieve it. Jelaila can be reached at: NibiruanCouncil9@gmail.com