New Assignment: Dancing with the Dark

Hi All,

Hope you had a lovely weekend and a great Mother’s Day. To all my fellow mothers, a belated wish of joy to you.

This week’s topic is on understand the role of the Dark, or dark polarity as it pertains to soul evolution.

Learning to dance with the dark polarity happens when you understand the higher purpose of this polarity. In short, soul evolution occurs when there is a challenge that the soul must overcome and it can happen when the soul applies higher wisdom.

Dancing with the Dark, the 5th Key of Compassion takes us on a journey into the realms where this higher wisdom is used. Once we truly understand the role of the Dark, we are able to rise above victim mentality and are then able to use the Dark polarity as a tool rather than being controlled by it.

Once again someone has stepped forward to help by sharing a situation. Here is Karen’s story:


Hi Jelaila,

I started listening to your calls at the end of January and am so glad I found you! So much of what you do resonates with me!

I am a retired OB/Gyn who was diagnosed with severe compassion fatigue and quit practicing medicine as a result. Since that time, I’ve been following the path to enlightenment, although I didn’t understand what was happening for a really long time.

I’m writing today because of the new assignment regarding emotional clearing. I’ve been dealing with a distressing situation for almost 20 years now and I’m thinking the reason this is in my life is so that I can learn how to deal with it with the highest integrity….

I went through a divorce in 2000 and in the same week that my husband moved out, I met a man with the same last name and we ended up getting married two years later. My first husband is white (as am I), but this guy is black. When we got together, I just couldn’t get rid of the idea that he is my twin flame. Now, after all we’ve been through and knowing that twin flames are often very difficult relationships designed to fuel each other’s growth, I’m pretty sure we had a previous life together in which one of us killed or did something like that to the other one. Shades of that have echoed up over the years with him. Whether he is my twin flame or not, I feel there is a lot of forgiving that needs to be done, at least by me. I have worked hard on this by working through your formulas for compassion etc.and I feel like I’ve gotten to the point where we can coexist in the world peacefully.

I’m not sure of this, but I think he may be one of the dark ones who is making his choice now whether to ascend or not and its up to me how I respond should he decide he wants to go for it. Very difficult but not impossible to dispense with resentment, anger, sarcasm, desire to get even, and all the other negative behaviors and emotions that go along with this. Your writings and calls keep me vigilant about policing my thoughts and emotions so they don’t get out of hand.

Thank you for the work you (we) are doing. If my journey can be of help to your team it would be a blessing to share it with you.



In order to prepare for this week’s call, a review of the 5th Key would be helpful.  Also, a review of the higher dimensional principles as outline in the Formula of Compassion, the 1st Key.

I look forward to talking with you all on tomorrow night’s call.


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